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Intimacy and sex

For most visitors this is the reason for the booking. Most sites write around the subject rather than about it.

What it usually comes down to

For the majority of visitors a booking is about touch and about satisfying sex. Agency sites tend to wrap that in phrases about a refined experience, but the request itself is more concrete: attention running the other way for once, and a man who takes his time and does not lose interest halfway through.

That is where gentlemen who do this regularly differ from amateurs. They ask what is welcome, they pay attention to what is happening and they keep the pace slow for as long as that is needed. For some visitors it is the first time it works that way.

Discussing wishes

That conversation runs through the agency in advance rather than with the gentleman directly, which is less awkward than it sounds. The agency hears this daily, knows which profiles suit which request and will suggest someone else when that fits better. At The Men's Company the wish can be stated with the request or discussed separately through https://www.gigolo-services.com/gigolo-contact/.

In practice a short list of what is not welcome works better than a long list of permissions. It gives the gentleman a frame instead of a checklist.

What the agency does and does not arrange

A mediation agency arranges the meeting and charges for time and companionship. No amounts are agreed for acts and there is no mediation in sexual acts. What two or more consenting adults arrange afterwards is their own choice and falls outside the mediation. The distinction is set out at https://www.gigolo-services.com/werkwijze/.

Practically it means nothing is counted or settled during the booking. The amount is known beforehand and the subject does not return.

Consent

Having paid for time and companionship changes nothing about the principle that everything rests on consent, from both sides, at every moment. A gentleman who treats that loosely does not belong at an agency. The same applies in reverse: he may stop as well.

Time

Two hours is enough for a booking with a clear shape. Anyone wanting a slow build, with conversation first and the rest later, gets further with three to four hours. The discount on longer bookings narrows the difference in cost; the figures are at /en/rates/.

Expectations

A booking is not a relationship and most gentlemen are clear about that. What can develop is an easy understanding across several bookings, where less has to be explained each time. Part of the visitors book the same gentleman for exactly that reason.

Bookings run through the agency

Which arrangements are possible is described by The Men's Company on its own pages. Anyone unsure which profile suits a particular wish can ask for advice in advance.